Meeting potential partners is a challenging and anxiety-inducing task. For lesbians, it can often be more difficult to find a partner due to uncertainty about the other person's sexuality. Fortunately, in modern society there are many ways to meet other lesbians. Even in areas where it is dangerous to be openly lesbian, online dating services and advice can help you find love
If you live in an LGBT-friendly area, search online to find LGBT social events. From pride parades to bar nights to casual social meetups, these events remove the pressure and uncertainty of trying to find other lesbians in straight spaces. Look for them on meetup.com, social networks, or through general search engines.
If you're in the United States, find nearby community centers in the lgbtcenter.org database.
If you're not out to everyone in your life, consider going to events in a nearby town, where people are less likely to run into you.